Tuesday, 3 September 2013

It's time - Reinvent Yourself.



Every organization and corporation from small to large scale invariably goes through a cycle of change over a period of time, it is only natural. A cycle of birth, growth, maturity, decline and eventually death, that is unless one is willing to embrace a new vision, idea or prototype and be ready to implement. This is where the business must reinvent itself and adapt to change to stay alive and ahead.

Marketing agencies know too well that markets can be unpredictable. The law of supply and demand is never constant and has its ups and downs. When a product or concept is going through a decline, in other words if sales of Kit Kat chocolate or Surf Excel washing powder seem to be dropping, then that is the most crucial moment to inject new ideas into these products in order to hold onto current customers and attract new ones. Even if Kit Kat is only just a bit chunkier, or Surf Excel now contains red flakes and not just blue, this will be enough to keep consumers demanding the product! Failure to introduce something new at this moment may see the death of the product, together with a loss of the market share.

The same change cycle is also applicable to individuals. We may find ourselves in the same sort of job and position for years, or even decades and although it provides security on the one hand, on the other it can stump our growth as we become stuck in a rut. This sort of scenario is not healthy for either the individual or the company. This is a very definite sign that we need to reinvent ourselves and change by choice before circumstances force us to change.

Change cycles help us to understand that nothing ever stays the same because change really is the only constant. We can be hired and fired, promoted and demoted within seconds! Praised today and defamed tomorrow. If we remain rigid and unyielding then we will crack when situations get tough. However, if we are willing to reflect inwards, be open to ideas and different perspective and most importantly, be flexible and fluid we may have a better chance of surviving the inevitability of change and coming out stronger and wiser.

Have you ever noticed how the cycles of time are gathering speed? Time is moving so fast that we cannot really hold onto anything! Our days feel shorter. The pace of the world in which we live is getting faster and faster and our to-do list gets longer and longer. In our current age we have indeed become time watchers hoping time does not run out and we either stagnate, a metaphoric death as we struggle to survive, or we adapt. How can we transition from being those who survive to those who excel in this new world order of fast pace change on so many levels; economic, social, environmental, political, technological and spiritual? From being time watchers or even timekeepers to creators of time, those who embrace, adopt and/or adapt to change?

The first lesson of who I can help here, when we remember that we are a human being vs. a human doing. With our preoccupation with action we lose sight of our being-ness, the true wealth of our humanity. We begin to redefine success.

Take moments every hour to just mentally step away from your present reality, breath in, reflect on perspective, purpose and meaning and experience yourself as a being.

Secondly, if we can make our work interesting by finding a deeper meaning and purpose, then our whole attitude will change because we will want to go to work and not be caught in a rut of having to work. Our work should be inspiring and not a cause for our expiry! The way to ensure this is to focus on a spiritual value or principle every day. In an atmosphere that is competitive and hard- core, practicing these spiritual values and principles will deepen our foundation, keep us anchored and help us adapt while we maintain our self-respect.

Values are deeply linked to our purpose. No matter how many cycles we go through as a corporation, or how high the individual climbs the corporate ladder our values and principles will always keep us in check and balanced. Even if our external reality seems a storm of the worst things we believe can happen to us such as being fired from work or sales targets unmet, with these simple steps we know our inner foundation of our values and principles will help us forge ahead.

Its time to reinvent yourself. Let spiritual values and principles form the bedrock of your life and let work remain an inspiration and not a cause for your expiration!
And most importantly, don’t forget to add, to be onto your to-do list!

Sunday, 1 September 2013

Sleepless nights - Exhausted looks



Are you constantly looking exhausted?
Almost all of us are victims to a deficiency of sleep. In fact, there is nothing worse than starting your day looking tired and sleep-deprived. Pale sallow skin, dry and dull complexion, puffy and dark under-eye circles, can reveal your level of fatigue.

Aqua effect:
The best way to get your skin looking fresh as a daisy is by splashing cold water on your face. The cold temperature helps by contracting blood vessels and making your skin look smoother. Splash some water first thing you wake-up to feel fresh and alive.

Bye bye dryness:
While you are sleeping, your skin tends to get dehydrated. Using a good moisturiser can help plump up the skin cells. All the signs of dry skin, such as lines which make you look older will reduce with the use of a moisturising cream.

Kitchen remedies:
If you are still looking pale and sallow, try using a combination of milk and ice cubes. Dip a napkin in the mixture and then place on your face for a few minutes. This will help to instantly brighten your skin, the Cleopatra way.

Reduce puffiness:
While most of us opt for eye creams in the night before sleeping, using one in the morning can help. Keep your cream in the fridge the night before and use it in the morning. The gel-based formula (opt for a water-based one) can help get rid of the puffy look.

Go slow on make-up:
If you haven't slept much the night before, it's best to go easy on the make-up. While you do want to cover up the tell-tale signs of sleepiness, you don't want to look like a caked-up monster. Go slow on heavy foundation or powder. Try a tinted moisturiser with SPF protection instead and use a light coat of concealer.

Eye openers:
They say the eyes are our windows to the world. No greater reason to ensure that they look their brightest best. Use an eyelash curler to open up your eyes and then apply a light coat of mascara. It will do wonders for your complete look.

Add some colour:
Get rid of the sallowness from your face by using some pink or peach coloured cream blush. This will instantly transform your complexion and take away the attention from your under-eye. Creamy formulas work better than powder blushes as they blend well and can add just a pinch of natural - looking colour.

Night care:
How well you take care of your skin the previous night can make a difference as well. Ensure that you use a good cleanser to remove all the make-up, dirt and grime stuck to your face.


Friday, 30 August 2013

Working late hours at office

It's half past 8 in the office..
But the lights are still on... 

PCs still running,
Coffee machines still buzzing... 

And who's at work?
Most of them???

Take a closer look... 
All or most specimens are??

Some male species of the human race...
Look closer...  

Again all or most of them are bachelors...
And why are they sitting late? Working hard ??No way JJJ


Any guesses???
Let's ask one of them...
Here's what he says...

Wat's ter 2 do after gng home... 
Here we get to surf, AC, phone, food, coffee…. That is why I'm working late... 
Importantly NO BOSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!! 

This is the scene in most research centers and software companies and other off-shore offices.
Bachelors "time-passing" during late hours in the office just becoz they say they've nothing else to do...
Now what are the consequences... 
Read on...


  


"Working"(for the record only) late hours soon becomes part of the institute or company culture.
With bosses more than eager to provide support to those "working" late in the form of taxi vouchers, food vouchers and of course good feedback,(oh, he's a hard worker...
goes home only to change..!!).

To hell with bosses who don't understand the difference between "sitting" late and "working" late!!! 
Very soon, the boss starts expecting all employees to put in extra working hours.
So, Hey Bachelors let me tell you, life changes when u get married and you have a family... 
Office is no longer a priority, and a family is...

And that's when the problem starts...
Becoz you start having commitments at home too.

For your boss, the earlier "hardworking" guy suddenly seems to become an "early leaver" even if you leave an hour after regular time, after doing the same amount of work.
People leaving on time after doing their tasks for the day are labelled as work-shirkers...
Girls who thankfully always (its changing nowadays... though) leave on time are labelled as "not up to it".
All the while, the bachelors pat their own backs and carry on "working" not realizing that they are spoiling the work culture at their own place and never realize that they would have to regret at one point of time.

 So what's the moral of this post?? 
* Very clear, LEAVE ON TIME!!!
* Never put in extra time " *unless really needed *"
* Don’t stay back un-necessarily and spoil your company work culture which will in turn cause inconvenience to you and your colleagues. 

There are hundred other things to do in the evening..
Learn music...
Learn a foreign language...
Try a sport... TT, cricket.........

Importantly get a girlfriend, take her around the town... 
And for heaven's sake net cafe rates have dropped to an all-time low (plus, no fire-walls)! Try cooking for a change.

It’s a typical Indian mentality that working for long hours means very hard working with 100% commitment.
People who regularly sit late in the office don’t know to manage their time. 
SIMPLE.